Require 3 consecutive ping failures before marking unreachable

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

ping.go

@@ -21,13 +21,17 @@ type PingManager struct {
 	pending  map[uint16]*pendingPing
 	nextID   uint16
 	minID    uint16
+	failures map[string]int
 }
 
+const pingFailureThreshold = 3
+
 func NewPingManager() *PingManager {
 	pm := &PingManager{
 		pending:  map[uint16]*pendingPing{},
 		nextID:   1000,
 		minID:    1000,
+		failures: map[string]int{},
 	}
 
 	conn, err := icmp.ListenPacket("ip4:icmp", "0.0.0.0")
@@ -154,14 +158,23 @@ func (t *Tendrils) pingNode(node *Node) {
 
 	for _, ipStr := range ips {
 		reachable := t.ping.Ping(ipStr, 2*time.Second)
+
+		t.ping.mu.Lock()
 		if reachable {
+			t.ping.failures[ipStr] = 0
+			t.ping.mu.Unlock()
 			if t.errors.ClearUnreachable(node, ipStr) {
 				log.Printf("[ping] %s (%s) is now reachable", nodeName, ipStr)
 			}
 		} else {
+			t.ping.failures[ipStr]++
+			failures := t.ping.failures[ipStr]
+			t.ping.mu.Unlock()
+			if failures >= pingFailureThreshold {
 				if t.errors.SetUnreachable(node, ipStr) {
 					log.Printf("[ping] %s (%s) is now unreachable", nodeName, ipStr)
 				}
 			}
 		}
 	}
+}