Persist merge intent so a restart mid-merge-turn doesn't lose it

docs/operations.md

@@ -28,9 +28,9 @@ A task's `merge_title` is the title of the squash commit Merge makes. It is the
 
 A task's participants are the users who put a message bubble with their name in its transcript, derived from its events (`Store.Participants`): the actors of its `user.message` events, joined to `users` so `byre` and `agent` drop out. That covers messages sent to the agent and inbox answers, whose delivery message carries the name of the first responder in it (`Deliver` in `internal/agents/inbox.go`); dismissing an item puts nothing in the transcript and doesn't count. They are ordered by their first such message. `GET /api/tasks/{id}/co-authors` returns the participants other than the caller, with their git name and email from `PUT /api/me` (empty for a user who hasn't set one). The Merge confirm fetches it and lists `Name <email>` for each co-author, and separately those with no git identity, who get no trailer.
 
-`POST /api/tasks/{id}/merge` starts the same turn and records, in memory, that the task is to be merged by the requesting user, who must have a git identity (400 otherwise). When that turn ends normally (not interrupted, not an error), byre squashes the worktree, now containing the default branch, onto it with `git merge-tree --merge-base`, makes one commit titled with the task's `merge_title` with `git commit-tree`, authored and committed by the merging user with no agent attribution, its body one `Co-authored-by: Name <email>` trailer per co-author with a git identity (`squashMessage` in `internal/agents/mergein.go`; the co-authors are computed when the squash runs, relative to the user who clicked Merge), and pushes that commit to the default branch on the `origin` remote of the project's checkout (`git push --porcelain origin <commit>:refs/heads/<default branch>`, run in the checkout). Only once the push is accepted does it run `git merge --ff-only` in the project's checkout (which must have the default branch checked out) and close the task; the `task.merged` event carries the commit and `pushed` (`origin/<default branch>`), and the transcript shows both. When the merge changes nothing, no commit is made and nothing is pushed.
+`POST /api/tasks/{id}/merge` starts the same turn and records in `tasks.merging_by` that the task is to be merged by the requesting user, who must have a git identity (400 otherwise). Every turn end of the task's session reads and clears it. It survives a byre restart during the turn: startup resumes the session with the restart notice, and the merge happens when that resumed turn ends. When that turn ends normally (not interrupted, not an error), byre squashes the worktree, now containing the default branch, onto it with `git merge-tree --merge-base`, makes one commit titled with the task's `merge_title` with `git commit-tree`, authored and committed by the merging user with no agent attribution, its body one `Co-authored-by: Name <email>` trailer per co-author with a git identity (`squashMessage` in `internal/agents/mergein.go`; the co-authors are computed when the squash runs, relative to the user who clicked Merge), and pushes that commit to the default branch on the `origin` remote of the project's checkout (`git push --porcelain origin <commit>:refs/heads/<default branch>`, run in the checkout). Only once the push is accepted does it run `git merge --ff-only` in the project's checkout (which must have the default branch checked out) and close the task; the `task.merged` event carries the commit and `pushed` (`origin/<default branch>`), and the transcript shows both. When the merge changes nothing, no commit is made and nothing is pushed.
 
-Before starting the turn, Merge runs `git fetch origin <default branch>` and `git merge --ff-only origin/<default branch>` in the checkout, so the agent merges in what the remote has; the request waits for the fetch, and a failure (network, or a checkout with commits the remote lacks) is returned as the request's error. If the push is still refused, for example because someone pushed during the turn, or fails for any other reason, byre files the error in the inbox and the task stays active; clicking Merge again fetches and goes round once more. A refused push leaves the checkout's default branch where it was, since the squash commit was never moved onto it. If the squash fails, for example because the default branch moved again during the turn, byre also files an error and the task stays active. An interrupted or failed turn, or a byre restart during it, leaves the task active without squashing. `POST /api/tasks/{id}/discard` removes everything without merging.
+Before starting the turn, Merge runs `git fetch origin <default branch>` and `git merge --ff-only origin/<default branch>` in the checkout, so the agent merges in what the remote has; the request waits for the fetch, and a failure (network, or a checkout with commits the remote lacks) is returned as the request's error. If the push is still refused, for example because someone pushed during the turn, or fails for any other reason, byre files the error in the inbox and the task stays active; clicking Merge again fetches and goes round once more. A refused push leaves the checkout's default branch where it was, since the squash commit was never moved onto it. If the squash fails, for example because the default branch moved again during the turn, byre also files an error and the task stays active. An interrupted or failed turn, an agent process that exits mid-turn, or a session that can't be resumed after a restart clears `merging_by` and leaves the task active without squashing. `POST /api/tasks/{id}/discard` removes everything without merging.
 
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